So who is a Lady?
A lady is a woman who is polite,well educated, posses excellent manners and behaves well.
Now, who is a virtuous lady?
- She has the qualities of a Queen or a Princess.
- She is a predetermined being in history.
- She is pure in heart Spends time in God's presence.
- She Controls her tongue (There is a connection between your mouth and your destiny.)
- She has skills and always seeks to improve on them.
- She Posses fearless courage.
- She has Compassion for needy.
- She is a pace setter not a pace keeper...
On becoming a virtuous lady, you have to:
~ Be hardworking and prayerful -Moving up in life is by grace and prayer not struggling. (Zechariah 4:6-7.)
~ Show love to everyone -loving people is a command, relationship is not by force...Flee from youthful lust,she purges herself 2Tim 20:21...She lives by conviction and not consessor.
Note that:
-Until you have a mind of your own, you don't have the life of your own..
-When you don't know your value as a LADY, your sense of responsibility and authority keeps draining.
-When a guy tells you 'to be lady like'.....don't just smile over it and form "tomboy"....
-You cannot hope for a man to complete you when you do not have a sense of belonging. The man and the woman completes each other. The man gets better and grows stronger because of the woman and the woman because of the man.
You pray for one hour and talk to bae for two or more hours..... Please work on it.
So now to the qualities of a virtuous lady
A virtuous lady has these 7Ps
- Purity
- Potential
- Purpose
- Pursuit of vision
- Partnership with God
- Patience
- Power of God
1. Purity- Purity means your body, soul, thoughts, ways, talks, mind, heart is pure..... A Virtuous Lady should be purified in all areas.
Be informed that Your virginity does not tag you as a PURE person.
Mind you, you can be a virgin and Still masturbate.
2. Potential- Ability to do wonderful things
"I am a woman of potentials and I don't know what I can do",madam you need help
The gift of man will pave way for him that's what my Bible says.
3. Purpose- A Life without purpose is a wasted life of potentials and opportunities
A purposeful man is a fulfilled man. Know why you are living.
4. Pursuit of Vision - Where are you going to be in the next 5years? Are you saying 'M gonna be married with six kids and would be enjoying my life?'......
Are you aware of the fact that a word you decree will be established in heaven? So why don't you start to decree words of life into your situation today?
5. Partnership with God- (Proverbs 31:30) How far is your partnership with God?. Can You pray in tongues? If no, do you desire to pray in tongues? Then ask. Can you worship for hours? If not, are you working towards having undisturbed hours of worship in the presence of God? Ask for grace to do so. Are there other things you desire which will mae your relationship with God better? Ask.(Matthew 7:7)
6.Patience- Patience is a virtue every Christian should have.
For example, a person who can't wait to get married, would not wait to jump out of it.
Patience sometimes can be painful and it sometimes looks like God has forgotten you, but the fact is that at the end of the day, patience pays. (He who laughs last, laughs best).
7. Power of God- What power has God given to you that you are misusing? Can you can sing to win souls? Can you pray and stand in gap for others? Do you have the grace to encourage others when they are down? Ensure you begin to use the grace of God upon you.
Think about this:
* When, you think you not being a virgin doesn't make u a virtuous lady, do not forget that the state of your hymen does not determine your purity.
If i hear say,you have aborted countless times, God is still using many people who have passed through what you are passing through. Christ died for you too
* You think Cos you are a porn addict,you are worthless. I am happy to tell you that He's ready to accept you....Christ appreciate the rugged ones that's why he gave us the rugged cross to cling to...
* Hypo is used because stains refuses to remove from white right?...The blood of Christ is more than enough to make us clean.
* When next you have the opportunity to visit a blacksmith, ask him how he came about the gold he wants to sell for 10million....He kept beating and burning. The rod was rusted and dirty,smelling and looking wasted but the blacksmith knew it's worth and brought out the best in its worst..Don't be too tired. Let's step down to the porters house and ask him why he so much appreciated the vessel in the show glass tagged 5million, i am so sure he doesn't like dirty things, imagine the smell coming out of of that stinky clay, but here is the vessel, looking very beautiful and attractive... We have RAW MATERIALS and FINISHED GOODS.. Your past was dirty so that your future can sparkle..
The capacity of a man is dependent on how virtuous the woman is.Tell your man.
* Different virtuous ladies are mentioned in the bible. E.g. Dorcas...Elizabeth, Ruth,Mary,countless number of them...Can I mention your name too when I list the Virtuous Ladies??..
* God loves you more than you love yourself....He can add virtue to you... His grace is deep... You have those bitter stories so that you can have a sweet history. (If you will let him use you for his glory)
* Great women of God you are hearing about and seeing today started like you.
Now, always remember that:
No one can be you except you.
You are special and distinct.
You are unique in your ways.
You are the epitome of beauty and success.
You are the best mom your kids could ever pray for.
You are the source of joy and motivation to your husband.
You are the Best.
LADIES OF GRACE Bible study tutored by MISS MOJOLA BOREWA
Bible text: proverb 31:10-31
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