Interview with LOG lastest bride to be

The bride to be herself

• She is Oshin Mercy Titilayo. A graced lady in her mid twenties. A professional Nurse from oyo state college of Nursing.  She is from a family of six with  parents inclusive,  she have 3 handsome brothers. She got to know christ more in the year 2011 at oyo state college of nursing and midwifery,  she is addicted to worship with God in songs and  music.  She got engaged in the year 2014 to the best gift the lord has given her Abimbola Ayodeji.  She is an  though once an extrovert but very friendly and accommodating. 

She has Passion for music and changing growing minds for good.  She is also a constructive criticizer 😀😀😀😀.
She started my purity stand in my getting to know God process in the year 2013..... But a crazy babe of NOSUM since childhood though on a covenant with God... Till date. 
As She got engaged in the year 2014,  Jan 5 to be precise in the evening to my precious Gift from God.......

Good day ma,congratulations on your wedding that is coming......
Kindly tell us how you met your husband to be? 

Hmmm. How I met him was the start but how I agreed to spend the rest of my life to him was a miracle... 

  We were childhood friends but at the point of growing older,  we lost contact and even the friendship...... I didn't see this happen from the start cos there are lots of childhood friends around BUT..... I started seeing this gentle man in my dreams immediately I gained admission to school i mean while in school but I've never put him in mind for once.. We don't even talk and in fact I've lost his contacts.... I didn't take it serious at all....... But all of this dreams were in parables but clear but he knew this before me and i got to know dt when he called me one beautiful day and just shared his mind. I turned him down and was like.... Is dt how to refresh a friendship not to talk of courting.. In the long run,  we became friends again in the year 2012 but i agreed to journey with him in the year 2014.... He is the best. 😀😀😀hmmm.

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• The couple on their introduction ceremony

What convinced you that the guy is the will of God for you?
I had lots of convictions..... Even after God has spoken in my dreams,  visions and even to the point of hallucination. I was too stubborn cos it was another person I had in mind... Nd I totally lost my peace and concentration.... The lord really loved me cos it was at the point of me frustrating him he sent his various servants I have never told about my life dt once I refuse to adhere to God's instruction....... I would pay for it and miss it maritally...... Then,  I agreed and I got my peace and got relieved of my hallucinations..... Visual and auditory... Tnks.

How do you feel marrying the man of ur dreams?
Thanks so much. Really appreciate...... 
😀😀😀😀.  I feel fulfilled and very excited but all thanks to God for this, he made this happen.

What are your hopes and aspiration for the marriage? 
Hmmm. My hopes and aspirations? they are much oooo. But most importantly,  making a change in the world nd giving the best trait to my coming generations... All for the glory of the lord.

Was there any challenge at first maybe from the guy's parent not liking you initially and how did you overcome?
The only challenge I had was with my personality to life...... I use to believe since I'm not married.. I still have my life to live and forgot the fact dt once you're engaged,  u av a responsibility and instructions to follow but i had to learn dt in a hard way but really beneficial.... I av no issue at all with his family.... They're my pals... And they respect my opinion as well... 😀. My thought about in laws have changed oooo. It's really a wow!

 Is there any bad habit you dislike about him but trust that God will change him at the due time?

• Yea... No man is perfect likewise women.... 😀and as i use to say... The purpose of a relationship is to correct in love and change each other for better. Yea,  he has really changed lots  things about me. I use to be the more stubborn.. 😀 but I am better now..
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You believe in NO-SUM but how has it been in the relationship for sometime.And How far does sexual purity go? To the point of no hugging/cuddling or...?

• I don't support no hugging... 😀😀😀. Maybe becos of the way I was brought up..... I meet friends everyday.... Especially you know what happens when you have seen a good male friend or family for a long time.... You shout and throw a hug to them but i critically advice those that have issues with their hormones.... Your case may be different please … . Be careful..... Frankly,  sexual purity goes beyond just abstaining from sex.... Don't start or manage romance,  kissing and even weird things worse than dt.... It's not about sex alone.... As my bible says... Flee from any appearance of evil..... It worths waiting... I tell u.

How were you able to control your emotions? + did you try making out for s**??  Happy for you sis. Marital Bliss💋

• Wow..... Cool question.  Well,  I've learnt the most interesting part to life..... ALONE BUT NOT LONELY.... My everyday crush word... It has taught me how wonderful it is to enjoy being alone and feel great.. Infact,  I almost became a home alone.... And at times,  i enjoy been alone than been anywhere.... What do i do there?  I read spiritual romantic,  challenging and screaming books.... God bless my motivators
• ..... T. D Jakes,  myles munroe and all likes....,  i learn skating as sport even though i fall many times.... I have a mini ministry I visit every week. And i have God as my best pal... But don't forget i have lots of assignments in my relationship too...... 😀

• What does she anticipate most in the marriage not wedding o?

Hmmm. I understand.  I've said it.  My home to be the change the world needs most especially to the coming ones and a trait of better tomorrow to my coming generation.

• What's her fiance shoe size?

Lolzzzzzz... 😀😀😀.  His shoe size is 43.

During this courtship ,do you always visit him and help him out in household chores or did you kip your distance?

• 😳😳😳household chores.... Nooo. But I've cooked for him twice on a day visit to his place.... It surprised him though.... Nd i have to save it for him till our journey is stamped.... 😀😀😀😀😀.
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How did you keep your relationship 4 almost  2years?
I will never do anything without him knowing ..... Likewise him, It has been God though the distance is there. So, we see once in awhile.

• What's your understanding about marriage?

Marriage is the only course u collect ur certif. icate before u go for the school which has no duration. It's a lifetime business u have to be sure of before u say.... I do. Most pple dnt finish the school,  few succeed in it.
But those that succeed in it put God first before it and has undergone the right process before saying I do.

• Marriage is not for kids irrespective of your age.. It's for mature minds.
• What are the activities you get involved into coz to me, am feeling its will be very boring without romances and all?

Boring?  That's because have not discovered alone but not lonely...... I recommend "waiting and dating" to every soul here.. You will understand more of what I'm saying.... Well,  i love sport,  research, gists,  challenging pple,  reading motivational books,  watching challenging movies,  attending forums mostly challenging ones and all likes.. Most importantly I still have my assignment to handle.The devil is a bastard that always want to cheat you cos he knows once you discover this... He's in soup.... So,  he has veiled the eyes of many and has given them substitute to keep their company when they have an attractive hrt to do exploits.... Hmmm. God help us.

Do you think finding and walking in purpose is better before getting married?

• There's nothing better... They walk together but one must come first before the other unless the other will collapse.... Walk in purpose and you'll find another person on d same journey with u dt will hold u strong,  encourage and help u finish strong.
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Iyawo, please drop word of encouragement for ladies who are sexually purified, and word of advice to those that are still struggling with SEXUAL PURITY
To those that are sexually pure.... Don't be discouraged,  a good reward awaits you... Be strong and continue to be firm and make christ ur rock but don't forget this,  it's a good thg to be sexually pure but this would only bring result when you choose rgt,  let your relationship with God be smooth and allow him to bring him to your kingdom journey. Then,  u will enjoy the joy of your abstinence. 
   To those that re still struggling with this,  get a counsellor that can guide u nd make your relationship with God good cos only him can help u but remember,  heaven helps those who help themselves.. Thanks.  God bless you all..... 😀😀😀