Mimi Ikomi
She is from Delta state
She is a God chaser.
graduate of the university of Benin, where she studied banking and finance
She is a caterer
She is a communicator (a speaker & a writer)
She run a ministry for single ladies -"SINGLE LADIES COMMUNITY- here inspire and spur single ladies to discovering and start going about fulfilling God's purpose for their lives while they await Mr Right and the importance of making the right choice of spouse and its role on purpose and destiny fulfillment. Also being led by God to make the right choice.
She does this through write-ups on various social medias and a one on one monthly event tagged- "SINGLE LADIES HANGOUT WITH MI-$PECIAL"
Ladies and gentlemen, oops ladies full of grace join me as i welcome our guest speaker Miss mimi Ikomi....
Welcome ma... 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
MISS MIMI IKOMI ON THE MIC:
- A WOMAN AND HER WORTH OR A WOMAN'S WORTH
I'll start with the definition of worth.
Worth: is the level at which someone or something deserves to be valued or rated.
A woman is worth more than the colour of her skin.
-A woman is worth more than her waist/hip size.
-A woman is worth more than the media portrays her to be.
-A woman is worth more than the jewelry or make up she wears.
-A woman is worth more than the name brands she wears (the designer shoes, bags, clothes, hair extensions).
-A woman is worth more than the world pressures her to show.
- Proverbs 31:10, "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies". Some other version use worth, value in place of price but they are synonymous and can interrelated. This verse is both a summary and a confirmation of all I have said above. So it means a woman's worth can not be measured by her material possessions, status, society, media...
- Now, we have looked at what a woman's worth is not, so let's look at what a woman's worth is. A woman's worth is that value, that price she places on herself and this is not measurable, it cannot be qualified or quantified with respect to her material possessions, status...It's more about her level of confidence,charisma, poise, her identity- how she sees herself.
- One of the easiest way a woman can begin to see her worth, place value on herself is when she realizes whose daughter she is. The daughter of the King of kings, a princess. One who has been bought with a price. 1 Corinthians 6:20.
- The moment you become a child of God, you worth level increases,you become worthy, priceless, valued.
- So this is it, firstly, you worth, your identity, is in Christ and that's because you've been bought with a price.
- Secondly, your worth depends on the value you place on yourself..
- So I ask when you look at yourself what do you see? A worthless woman? A woman whose price is below rubies? Or A woman of worth! A confident woman! A woman who won't settle for less. A woman who won't allow her status, her past, or society define her.
- So I ask when you look at yourself what do you see? A worthless woman? A woman whose price is below rubies? place a price on her, because she knows whose she is, a Child of the most high God.
- There was a time in my life I sought people's approval. I was becoming an approval addict & sadly I didn't even know. I allowed people place a price on me, determine how I felt about or how I saw myself. Thank God He delivered me and He's still working on me.
- At that time I walked on egg shell, I wasn't free to be myself, I feared and cared about what people would say. I thought I needed so, so and so's person's approval to be seen as a good girl or to become all God has created me to be. And the truth is most of them drew back from me because they didn't see my worth and their action made me feel more worthless but I do not blame them.
- It was like I was burden to them. I lacked self confidence. I couldn't express myself in public because I felt, "what do I have to say?" despite the fact that I like to talk. But the moment I realized that all I needed was God's approval and began walking in this light, my confidence level .
- I understood that I was priceless, worthy, valued, it's just that the people in my life couldn't see it back then because I couldn't see it too. it was my responsibility to make them know I was priceless but I failed then.
- I began to fall in love with myself and the more I fall in love with myself the more people fall in love with me and automatically the right people, people who know my worth were and are attracted to me.
- Dear woman, you only need God's approval/validation to feel worthy and act worthy. Once you acknowledge and walk in this light your confidence level will rise and you will attract the right people and for single ladies the right man.
- Now I know my worth. I know I'm a force to reckon with and It doesn't matter if someone doesn't see me that way but I will not allow anyone make me feel worthless or treat me less than a queen!
- So my dear woman begin from today to see yourself as God sees you- worthy, valued, unique, beautiful, great, a success. Do not give room for anyone to steal your identity, make you worthless, validate you, tell you how much you are worth even if you've had a horrible past. You worth is far above, rubies.
- Do not place your worth or confidence on material things- make up, clothes, shoes, degree, marital status because this things will fade.
- Fall in love with you. Place value on yourself, don't pursue people who do not see your value or worth as they'll make you feel worthless and make you feel bad about yourself. Set godly standards for yourself and don't lower it for anyone at even the highest price, or the highest bidder.
- Remember you are priceless. you are a force to reckon with , a queen. Therefore act, talk, walk and carry yourself like one. I see you becoming all God has created you to become!
- Rubies is a precious stone yet you cannot be compared it. So your worth is not measured by any man's standard, but by God's standard and your standard. Don't give anyone the key to make your feel your are worth it or not worth it. Stop seeking people's approval for everything especially on how you should feel about yourself.
- P .S: do not let your self-confidence turn into overconfidence because that's tending towards pride. Place value on yourself but do not think of yourself more highly than others. Do not start thinking or feeling you are better than anyone. All you need do is, feel good about yourself, walk in your uniqueness and allow others walk in their uniqueness without you feeling superior to them.
- Let me tell you this,
- If you think you are priceless, worthless then that automatically becomes your worth because that is how you see yourself and that's how others will see you.
- Women like Esther, Deborah, Ruth, Mary, Rahab, Dorcas
- These women knew their worth and acted in accordance.
- God is raising women who will conceive and birth great things in all sectors for this generation and in this generation. And in those days women were prevented from doing a lot of things
- We have more freedom in this generation, so you have no excuse.
And if you look around you, you'll see God has started raising them.
And i'm one of them🙌🏾
Keep Q.U.E.E.N.I.N.G and God bless you all!
*hugs and kisses*
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